"TRAIN YOUR MIND to see the innocence in each other's mistakes even if it's from behind a boundary. Even if their mistake made it impossible for you to feel safe around them. (for now ... or forever....) This training is all for you. Not them. This training your mind to see the Innocence and even the good intentions in someone's shity mistake is how we evolve. It's how you become more comfortable in your body and in the world. It's not for them. Obviously it will help

Soulmates.... Are never an answer to a problem. The problem of loneliness and disconnection... THEY ARE NEVER THE ANSWER. We must ENTIRELY stop expecting them to be. Soulmates are a reflection of the problem. NOT IN ANY WAY EVER.... the solution... As soon as you start treating others like a solution.... they either run from you or, in their illusion.... treat you like a solution and you trap each other... Soulmates are not there to make it all better they are there