January 22, 2020

Whats the difference between a friendly acquaintance and an actual friend?


Vulnerability and Struggle.

Whomever you have a truly bonded relationship with
is someone you have struggled with...
or at least expressed the truth of your personal struggles...


December 12, 2019

"TRAIN YOUR MIND to see the innocence in each other's mistakes
even if it's from behind a boundary.
Even if their mistake made it impossible for you to feel safe

around them. (for now ... or forever....)

This training is all for you.
Not them.
This training your mind to...

December 12, 2019

Are never an answer to a problem.
The problem of loneliness and disconnection...

We must ENTIRELY stop expecting them to be.

Soulmates are a reflection of the problem.

NOT IN ANY WAY EVER.... the solution...

As soon as you start tre...

October 4, 2019

Anxiety is VITALITY focused on Negative outcomes.
Anxiety is Vitality.
Before anxiety... there ia Vitality.
Life force.
Vitality is non polarized life-force.
Vitality is the feeling of aliveness and action.
It is one of your natural states.

Anxiety is Vitality focused...

August 14, 2019

I judge people every second.

Nothing wrong with discrimination and choice.
I discern that you are to
dangerous/grumpy/self absorbed to my liking
and I will PEACEFULLY remove myself from your sphere of influence.
Or I judge you as compelling/creative/interesting and I wi...

August 1, 2019

THE Root of all EVIL by Jane Calm

So this is a dream I had....
And I'm pretty sure its gonna blow some brains off
and could easily apply to pretty much anyone

I was in my childhood home....in the upstairs hallway...owwwwww
with a medicine women elder
and another girl - a...

August 1, 2019

Taking Psychedelic plants is like swallowing a therapist

Your own insanely specific personal therapist.

Why the fuck not????

Some people say they don't want to take psychedelics because they don't want it to change them. Don't you want to change? Isn't changing wonderful?...

July 31, 2019

TRUE LOVE is finding the place inside of you that
truly wants to know
what you "dont wanna know"
about the person you claim to truly love.

Can you experience true love
without truly hearing who your lover is... ???
their detailed PAST 
detailed PRESENT
and ALLLLLL the...

July 31, 2019

you are not loved for your body
you are desired for your body.
In the Hall of Mirrors...
that is comparison and longing... 
we use our bodies to bargain for affection
but you cannot be loved from there. 
Being loved for your body is like being loved for your costume. 

June 21, 2019



A Reality Check is a communication tool that helps you get curious about your upset with another person without immediately projecting fault onto them.

You know how our minds thinks they know what the other person is...

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