The Reason People Lie to You

It's really compassionate to remember that the reason people LIE TO YOU is... they are seeking your approval. they are seeking your affection and attention and they don't think they can have it as they REALly are. as things have REALly happened. They don't think they are lovable as they REALly are.

so in order to get your approval... they have to do the job of organizing reality around what is NOT REAL

because their REAL is definitely not good enough...in their minds...for survival and love here on this planet...in this situation...

This thought is brought to you by ... the hopes that... You will have more compassion for yourself when you lie and for others when they withhold and strategize their TRUTH to present to you...

We are all just so scared and trying desperately to be safe and loved in this world. (the HUSTLE made me do it)

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY...

WE BELIEVED SOMETHING THAT IS

NOT NOT NOT TRUE.

that your particular REAL is unlovable

THAT IS NOT TRUE no matter what you did or do in the sometimes confusing unraveling of being YOU.