June 9, 2019


So this observation super helps me in community when I dislike or feel betrayed by certain members of it. 
People bug me / hurt me / disappoint me/
and even betray me
Yet these exact same people
at the exact same time
are someone else's angel lover / supporter / frien...

Childhood Traumas stunt our emotional growth
until they are revisited
re-felt
and nurtured from your
protective
loving adult mind.

Your adult mind. Your childhood trauma.

We are literally stuck back there
with the same beliefs we had as a wee child......Superimposed now,...

March 14, 2019

This is the most important part of friendship

if you don't like something I've said or done
If I've hurt you ....

I want to hear about it. I MUST hear about it.

In detail.

...I want to be able to hear the EXACT way your mind and heart perceived my actions

So I can know you...

February 20, 2019

WHO HAS A PARTNER THAT'S AN ADDICT???

this article will address what happens when one partner seems to be "more" addicted then the other partner.

First of all-
disclaimer...I am an addict..you're an addict... we are all addicts!!!
99.9% of the population is addicted to s...

February 20, 2019

Yes you will lose that thing you love....
Yes Everything changes and fades away...
But it happens in exactly the right order...
when you stay open- grateful- and curious
full of humble questions.... beyond your ouchy ego answers...

you'll notice that it faded exactly wh...

February 20, 2019

Are you feeling stuck in patterns of miscommunication with your partner or friend or roomate or family member... the same issues keep coming up... over and over...

AHHHHH FUCK

we're doing it again!!!!!

 We can, so quickly, in our hurt and confusion...

become a blockhead or...

January 14, 2019


So a question that comes up a lot when I tell people that I'm an online counselor is...
Online????????????
Really???
Are you able to connect with people deeply enough when there's a screen between you?

Legit question

Before I was trained in it.... I was completely again...

May 10, 2018


 

you're NOT
looking
for just any man/wombman

you're NOT looking for someone
"man enough" "woman enough"
to be with you
becuase you're just so unique and different...
cause honestly...
WHO ISN"T???)

no
you're not looking for just any MAN/WOMAN....

BUT...

you ARE looking fo...

May 10, 2018

Holy FUCK
fighting with your loved ones sucks!!!!!
...but the truth about arguing
is that those intense distressed feelings
are crucial information for the health of your honest relationship...soooooo...
HOW TO FIGHT WITHOUT DYING INSIDE
HOW TO GET OUT THOSE HURT FEELI...

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