May 10, 2018


 

you're NOT
looking
for just any man/wombman

you're NOT looking for someone
"man enough" "woman enough"
to be with you
becuase you're just so unique and different...
cause honestly...
WHO ISN"T???)

no
you're not looking for just any MAN/WOMAN....

BUT...

you ARE looking fo...

May 10, 2018

Holy FUCK
fighting with your loved ones sucks!!!!!
...but the truth about arguing
is that those intense distressed feelings
are crucial information for the health of your honest relationship...soooooo...
HOW TO FIGHT WITHOUT DYING INSIDE
HOW TO GET OUT THOSE HURT FEELI...

May 10, 2018

If you are in a conflict discussion with someone...make sure you take turns.
Don't try and unravel both upsets at the same time
that will inevitably turn into a "you did this!!!"
"but you did THIS!!!"
"you hurt me...!!!!"
" only after you hurt me first!!!"
" NOOOOOO wa...

May 10, 2018

you can't control how you are loved by another.
but you CAN control how you love the other.

it takes a SHIT TON of practise...
but steering your thoughts towards love and understanding...
instead of condemnation, attack and blame...
is entirely within your powers.

it's a...

May 10, 2018

Refusal to talk about a problem keeps it alive.
The confused energy needs an outlet.


If you ignore it, and refuse to hold intentional space to unravel the painful experience 
it will find a way out...sometimes attacking people that aren't even involved...

you are worth...

May 10, 2018

Compassion is non duality


seeing beyond right and wrong
merely listening and letting in


the story of that shitty thing they did

nothing to protect yourself from 


you are safe... to merely listen and understand. 


(what do I need to think in order to feel safe with you me...

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